Nothing Changes Like Change..
This is of course common saying...
But in real life we are more accustomed to usual things, meaning usual routines which makes us feel the changes implemented on them is tough to adhere with...
For example…
Previously I used to come in the Metropolitan Transport Corporation bus for which i start by 7:30AM to the bus stop, I get a bus by 7:45 AM and I get in to it and reach my office by 8:30AM,I was getting used to it...
One day the bus was late...It was heavy down pour.... Alas. I couldn’t bear that change...I was scolding the Bus driver, The TN Government, The Rain and each n everything around me...
After a few weeks I happened to get accustomed to the habit of getting my dad's vehicle to office...And incase there’s is some mishap or there a problem in the vehicle...Again its a change...and same old thing happens again
This might sound something like Pavlov's experiment which we mite be familiar with...But Pavlov’s experiment demonstrates the adaptability of humans towards a particular day to day activity on the other case now the focus is on the resistivity towards change to the adaptability of regular activities...
Recently I read a book named "Who moved my cheese??" This is really a beautiful and popular book, which describes how we get used to regular day-to-day life, and why we resist changes...and what are the steps, which must be done to make us used to these changes.... Perhaps this book influenced me to write this blog.....
But what I feel is "Changes remain as changes as long we get accustomed to it..."
So lets try to get accustomed to them.... How??
The change(s) brings us to a new situation, which was not expected, new problem or new solution, which we ever thought of...A new start or a blunt end, which we never planned.... An expected happiness or unexpected sorrow....
Incase if the change brings us all on the positive side lets learn what made it a success, why is it a positive and try to implement the same strategy in all forthcoming days??
Incase it brings thing on the negative side then also lets learn and analyze what made it negative and how to avoid in the future...
All these analysis would finally end up in knowing our strength and weakness; we will improve our strength and try to reduce our weakness....
Of course this process is not that much simple to be done in a fortnight...We must even get accustomed to this kind of analysis of problems and changes :), Practice makes a man perfect...So lets start practicing this as soon as possible....
But as the saying goes "If u don’t strive hard to get what u like u will be forced to like what u get..." This also is a saying indirectly implying change...Try to have a voluntary and an expected change towards a positive direction or u would be forced for an eventual unexpected change...
What’s this...I have used the word "change" too much.... I hate this word now :( SOMEBODY HELP ME FROM THIS "CHANGE"
But in real life we are more accustomed to usual things, meaning usual routines which makes us feel the changes implemented on them is tough to adhere with...
For example…
Previously I used to come in the Metropolitan Transport Corporation bus for which i start by 7:30AM to the bus stop, I get a bus by 7:45 AM and I get in to it and reach my office by 8:30AM,I was getting used to it...
One day the bus was late...It was heavy down pour.... Alas. I couldn’t bear that change...I was scolding the Bus driver, The TN Government, The Rain and each n everything around me...
After a few weeks I happened to get accustomed to the habit of getting my dad's vehicle to office...And incase there’s is some mishap or there a problem in the vehicle...Again its a change...and same old thing happens again
This might sound something like Pavlov's experiment which we mite be familiar with...But Pavlov’s experiment demonstrates the adaptability of humans towards a particular day to day activity on the other case now the focus is on the resistivity towards change to the adaptability of regular activities...
Recently I read a book named "Who moved my cheese??" This is really a beautiful and popular book, which describes how we get used to regular day-to-day life, and why we resist changes...and what are the steps, which must be done to make us used to these changes.... Perhaps this book influenced me to write this blog.....
But what I feel is "Changes remain as changes as long we get accustomed to it..."
So lets try to get accustomed to them.... How??
The change(s) brings us to a new situation, which was not expected, new problem or new solution, which we ever thought of...A new start or a blunt end, which we never planned.... An expected happiness or unexpected sorrow....
Incase if the change brings us all on the positive side lets learn what made it a success, why is it a positive and try to implement the same strategy in all forthcoming days??
Incase it brings thing on the negative side then also lets learn and analyze what made it negative and how to avoid in the future...
All these analysis would finally end up in knowing our strength and weakness; we will improve our strength and try to reduce our weakness....
Of course this process is not that much simple to be done in a fortnight...We must even get accustomed to this kind of analysis of problems and changes :), Practice makes a man perfect...So lets start practicing this as soon as possible....
But as the saying goes "If u don’t strive hard to get what u like u will be forced to like what u get..." This also is a saying indirectly implying change...Try to have a voluntary and an expected change towards a positive direction or u would be forced for an eventual unexpected change...
What’s this...I have used the word "change" too much.... I hate this word now :( SOMEBODY HELP ME FROM THIS "CHANGE"
